Yes! You put the problem into words perfectly. But I've decided to just write and not bother worrying about how everything sounds; I've heard about some of the fics that are posted on Wraitbait, and if those people are brave enough to post...
You haven't written a fic I didn't love though. You always have a good handle on the characters.

YES, I SAW. His hair, it's all fluffy and sticking up xDD I want to ruffle it and kiss his cheek. Have you seen the one where he has Baz's underwear on his head?